my family of cats

Do you ever feel like the people you and think you will build a relationship - no specific form inplied - are the people it will least work with? At this point in time as much i don't want to think this is true (because i can think of one person i really want a relationship with), because, despite the definite possibility of something occuring it feels like it won't. And i definitely want it to as well.

Then theres those other people, who you see no possibility of anything developing (even because you hate them and there a pain in the ass) and somehow those are the ones that last? If we live in a world where this is true then we truely are fucked.

 So what is my resolve to all this?

Well, i plan to get out of this stupid idea. And I'm actually going to do it this time. No more fucking around with people, no more doing stuff just for the enjoyment of it. From now on i want to strive for the unnatural and get rid of the rest of it (well, them is probably the better term to be used here).

Yes, yes i know. Why would you do that? You'll just get hurt, it'll end as soon as it started, you'll regret for the rest of your life. BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH. See if i care. If something bad is to come from it, then i will suffer the consequences, learn from my mistakes, and move on. It's not like i haven't been doing that for most of my life anyway? Haven't we all really?

Lets be serious here - yes and i do see how contradictory that is after an unnaturally long llama - there is some people i know i could keep konwing, seeing, being with for many years to come. And everything else says thats won't last. 

Apparently:

long distance relationships don't last

relationships where "puppy love" is evident don't last

relationships resulting from disaster don't work

relationships with people you met on the internet are fucked.

relationships with people who have been your friends are always made even worse.

opposites attract.

ok, i partly believe the last one, although i don't believe people who are opposites and as a result dislike each other can work.

These are "accusations" which must be overcome. There like old housewife stories, rumours, myths and legends. They are full of shit and not to be believed. PEOPLE, do not believe these! you know just as well as me that believing these will have end up a cat lady with family stickers of you and your seven cats stuck to back of your car.  

considering i think this is possible, yet think marriage is unrealistic and load of shit i think i will be the one with the cat family.